I recently read a blog post called "Privileged" by Kyle Korver of the Utah Jazz.
Towards the end, he says that he does NOT have the answers, but he may guidance towards starting to change the dynamics of privilege. Here is the section on which my focus needs to be:
Please read Kyle's words, and let them soak in a bit more. I really like the next tidbit about guilt and responsibility, as well. That bit should help more of us who have white fragility.